Posted on April 1, 2017 at 12:21 PM
People sometimes fall head over heels in love to an extent that they hesitate to notice that there was something wrong in their relationship and they are being abused. It is not something that is new as it has happened to many women in the past and is still happening in many houses. One has to know what no one should allow their partner to mistreat them no matter what the reason is. Your love for your partner may be unconditional, but it does not mean that you can be abused and hit by them.
You have to stand by your self esteem and fight such situations. You have to defend yourself and get out of such relationship where there is no space for love. Most of the people don’t know that they are in an abusive relationship and continue to lead their live just like that by taking abuses all the time. So, here we are presenting you with some seven signs that prove you are in an abusive relationship.
You cannot figure out what you are going through
If your relationship is in its abusive state, you cannot understand what is happening around you and why it is happening. You cannot understand your partner’s behavior and you decide to ignore it. If that is the case, it is clear that you are in an abusive relationship.
You cannot understand your partner anymore
You will fall into a dilemma and end up asking yourself questioning if it is the same person you have fallen in love with. You have to make a choice here whether to stay in the relationship or to get away from it.
You feel afraid
You feel unsafe and unhealthy when they were around you. You feel terrified when they are around you. You feel cautious about the things you do in your everyday life and will fear of their reaction to your deeds.
You will feel like you have given up
You feel like you have given up on your relationship. You feel broken and tired of the emotional and physical abuse you are going through and you feel it is okay to take it and carry it on.
You will give all your control to your partner
You will give all the control of yourself to the partner. You will decide to give in to them and their abusive behavior. You don’t care about what they do to you as you think that they are your life.
You keep telling yourself that everything is fine
Even after being aware that nothing is going good in your relationship, you blindly want to believe that everything is fine. You keep telling yourself that your partner is a good person and the coming days will be good.
You dedicate yourself to your relationship
You forget about yourself and just dedicate yourself to your partner without giving space for your own dreams.
If you have noticed any of these signs in you, make sure to address them as soon as possible and don’t just take all the abuse just to save your relationship.